Your (soon to be) ex is georgeous, why get a divorce?
This person was not wrong. She is a beautiful person in many ways, inside and out. The short answer to this question is that she is not a lesbian. She didn’t have any desire to be with me as a woman and I could no longer live with a mask. This has created an emotional, physical and spiritual gap between us that neither of us believed we could overcome.
The longer answer is that there are always many factors that contribute to the breakdown of a relationship. I will explore that more in the Divorced and Pressing On category.